Wednesday, March 18, 2009

How to Have a Library Themed Wedding Part I

//part two is here//

Go ahead. Google "library themed wedding" and 90% of the context will be my wedding. Scott has had massive emails asking how this came about and I would love to share our story. We married one year ago in March, and this is the perfect way to show you how it was done. It's way too long of a process to tell you all in one post, so I'll be doing series of it. This is the post of our invites.

I didn't want the typical wedding where we have one or two original elements. We wanted everything to be different. We brainstormed every type of wedding and our creativity kept returning to a library theme. We loved reading, academia, and of course, libraries.

Our biggest challenge was not choosing the theme, it was choosing the invites. My mom has an amazing, amazing, a-mazing hand and volunteered to do each invite by hand with calligraphy. I loved the idea, very romantic and timeless, but as our wedding guests went from 100 to a 300 + guest list, it was too much for her. Plus, she was already hand making my wedding dress. I wanted her to concentrate on that instead.

We wanted our invites to fit the theme, but of course, for me, on a personal note, the pressure of pleasing people always arises at the times you don't need it. I wanted something original but with 80 million ideas, I couldn't concentrate. Of course, Scott came to the rescue and suggested we make our own and have it fit our themed wedding.

Instead of a regular RSVP, we made our guests fill out an "application form" as if they were applying for a library card. Scott found a cool font online to download and used it for our invites. We used thick paper, and printed everything ourselves from his printer.
RSVP
we even had "rules" to make it more legit.
and for those of you that are familiar with the Dewey system, notice 365.49! *giggles*
We didn't find paper like this, we made it ourselves and crossed our fingers it would work when it printed and it did! We just bought thicker paper so it won't be too easy to bend in the mail.
Rules of the Reception
Our Invites

on the map, we had a quote from Rudolfo Anaya. We found it very appropriate!

Directions to the wedding

this is how the whole invite looked once it was put together.
My parents made us a custom embosser and help from friends and family to emboss each pocket. we also had a stamp made that said "the library of scott and diana".
We ordered a stamp that said "Library Mail" and I had a few guests tell me they thought the invite envelope was an overdue notice from their library. Even the lady at the Post Office warned me half of my guests will possibly throw it out because it looks nothing like an invite. Well, that is the whole point, but thankfully, no one threw out any invites. The envelopes were basic tan colored business envelopes and we used the font we found to address them.We also embossed the front of the cards and envelopes with our first initials to give it a more dated look.It really wasn't to hard; we got the actual slips from a library supply company (I think it was Demco) and used card stock, custom made rubber stamps, and a paper cutter as are only other supplies. Scott used Word to create the cards themselves...it's nothing more then a Text Box with lines...Hope that answers some of your questions!
I'll be posting more deets of the wedding soon!

44 comments:

ana b. said...

This post confirms to me that you are one of the coolest people I *know* on the internet right now. I love this concept. I can't wait for the other posts.

And check this: "for those of you that are familiar with the Dewey system, notice 365.49!:" Tehehe - awww Diana!

Milly said...

This is such a cool theme!

Adeline said...

This is so original! Every single detail is awesome AND...
I LOVE the Dewey system, I actually use it on my other blog to classify my posts :)

Rebecca said...

Sounds like an awesome wedding! Can't wait to read more. :) I love it when people think up their own unique theme and make things themselves for the wedding!

Tina { Luphia Loves... } said...

what a great theme indeed! i love library cards :)

please sir said...

What a great theme - these look like really cool invites to introduce the theme of a wedding!

Jhoa said...

Hola!
Pasaba a saludarte besitos
Jhoa♥

~e said...

LOVE!

So wonderful!! Makes me want to re-plan my whole wedding!

Twobreadsplease said...

This is absolutely wonderful, I love how much time and thought you put into the invites. They look so cool! x

drollgirl said...

ohmyfuckinggod. you guys are so cool. so creative. i cannot tell you how impressed i am!!! it is such a great idea, and the way you executed the invitations was FLAWLESS. i mean, come ON! who does this? so great. so so great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dapper kid said...

WOW, what beautiful invites!! I am totally looking forward to the rest in the series, what a stunning wedding theme :)

MONSTE C said...

so original

Liz said...

Oh my god. Incredible!

Parapluie said...

Aw, I love this, it's so creative!

Estela said...

wow, what an amazing theme for your wedding! I've never heard of anyone using a library theme! The invites looked amazing

diane said...

That is the coolest wedding idea I have ever seen, Kudos!

Sol said...

Oh wow! People always choose the same themes for their weddings, so this is beyond original. Plus, you made it your own, so that's what makes it so special.
Being a graphic designer, i can tell you this totally rocks. You guys achieved to sum up the whole theme on the invitations. Can't wait to see the rest!

lauh-ren said...

omg i love this! how creative!

deedoubleyou said...

so cute - i love themes!
and i really need to see that movie now (from your last post) i forget that guys name but did he write it? isnt he one of the ones responsible for wet hot american summer?
also thanks for the comment/encouragement - they're always so sweet and thoughtful

aubrey said...

i just passed by your blog but i 'm too tired to read your post..sorry:(
but i'll drop by tomorrow to write a proper comment :)
xx

issa said...

oh wow.. that is the kutest thing ever!!

paula said...

oh my, these are amazing. So brilliant really.

Diane said...

This is so incredibly cute and cool! The invites are beautiful.

There are so many things I love about this - the application form invite, the font you used, the "for staff use only" portion of the invite, the use of 365.49...ack, I love it all!

Trish said...

Haha! Wow, cool theme!! :)

You are my fave... said...

These are amazing. I love the library.

M. Rivera said...

I remember my husband getting mad cause he thought it was an overrdue letter...lol
Seriously awsome & SO creative! I can tell u for a fact I will never forget your wedding... Loved it! (& love u too *blush*)

S.Elisabeth said...

Omgsh that's probably the cutest,quirkiest, most unique wedding theme i have ever heard of. You guys seem like the couple that would give everyone a toothache with how sweet you are!

Sarahahaha said...

Aaaah! Amazing! I love it!

Amelia said...

That is so quirky and cool!!! I love the attention to detail in all of it. I hope my wedding will be this cool...someday.

Connie Hsiu said...

thats crazy!!!!!

lol :)


but yeah, i can only imagine...some of the trends today are soo odd

muchlove said...

what a brilliantly cool idea! I hope my future wedding will be as creative (obviously I need to get that thing called a boyfriend first).

.. and your comment made me giggle! I hope you didn't scare your husband ;)

Emily said...

This was delightful to read! Very creative and extra special! :)

Nathan said...

Ha! that's awesome!

amanda said...

There are no words to describe how much I love your wedding theme.

indigotangerine said...

such an adorable idea! the cards are perfect. did you have the wedding IN a library?
-indigo

ryanandaimee said...

so completely cool and original

18november said...

now I see weddings in an entirely different light! this is a brilliant idea :)

Madison Palffy said...

oh my god. This is the cutest/most beautiful thing I've seen in a while. I hope my future husband and I are as sweet as you two.

cheekfam said...

Yours is the only wedding I have seen that might make my book-crazy son and his librarian wife think twice about their wedding at the Oklahoma City Zoo.

Tasneem said...

So glad to see you're posted on American Libraries Direct. As always, you rock! Love, Tasneem & Dennis in Ana-crime

LibraryChristi said...

We had a library themed wedding, too! A few of the things we did: we made save the date cards that were due date cards, our place cards were library cards (ordered from Demco), the tables were classified with Dewey, and our cake was a pile of books.

tim + lisa said...

uhhm... i LOVE your wedding.

ours is themed around old books, antique maps + family history.

but GOSH! all the thought + detail. amazing. amazing.

i've run out of words. *sigh*

Eyeliah SS said...

oh sounds so lovely, what fun! the details were impeccable too. :-)

Courtney said...

Oh my goodness - I love this idea. You're so creative!